Episode 9

90 Day Fiancé S12 E9 RECAP | Actions Speak Louder Than Words | Remote Reality

Published on: 6th July, 2026

90 Day Fiancé Season 12 Episode 9 recap is here! In this episode, "Actions Speak Louder Than Words," Remote Reality podcast hosts Lauren and Dee break down all this weeks drama.

Catie's drinking problem takes center stage and Josh is reaching his breaking point. Blackout nights, hangovers, and the constant kissing incidents: Is it OCD or is it alcoholism? We get into it.

Marissa and Edward head to New York City, and Marissa's control issues and micromanaging are pushing Edward to his limit.

Mallorie and Rash's relationship turns to asset talk, when Mallorie brings up a prenupand a budget to show Rash how much his carpeting hobby actually costs.

Paula and Thomas find a wedding venue then head to Charlotte, North Carolina to smooth things over with his divorced parents, but stepmom drama and a camper with a questionable toilet situation are waiting for them.

Ashia and Maxwell decide to lock in a spousal visa.

And Shae introduces Anabelle to his wild birthday party, but can she hang with Shae?

This 90 Day Fiancé recap covers every couple, every red flag, and every "did that really just happen" moment from episode 9.

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Remote Reality
Attorney and Paralegal give surprising look at Reality TV and True Crime
90 Day Fiancé, Sister Wives, Love is Blind, The Traitors, Big Brother and more . . . if there’s a red flag, we’re finding it. Welcome to Remote Reality, the podcast where reality TV obsession meets funny legal analysis and overthinking.

Hosted by Lauren, a goofy attorney who can’t help but cross-examine the screen, and her paralegal sidekick Dee, we break down the most chaotic moments in reality TV, true crime and pop culture. We don’t just recap the drama; we put it on trial.

Follow us to get weekly breakdowns of the best reality tv shows airing, deep dives into the most controversial true crime cases with an attorney.

Whether you’re here for the Sister Wives fallout or a Dateline mystery, Lauren and Dee provide the unfiltered reactions and "did they really just say that?" commentary you’ve been looking for.

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